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Take on Your Dreams: How Becoming a Music Superconnector Gave Me a New Sense of Purpose
Kay Cote
September 16, 2024

The opportunity to share my story on Famous Interviews with Joe Dimino came about shortly after Amplify EDM events started taking off! Today, I want to share not just my story, but also how you can turn your dreams into reality, no matter where you are starting from. My journey—from the open plains of North Dakota to the heart of Austin’s EDM scene—was full of twists and turns, but each challenge pushed me toward growth, discovery, and transformation. If you're feeling stuck or unsure of your path, I hope my story will inspire you to take that leap and chase your dreams.

From Small Beginnings to Big Dreams

Growing up on a farm in North Dakota, my love for music and performing started at an early age. Even as a child, I knew music was my passion—it was the one thing that made me feel alive and connected. I started singing and dancing as soon as I could walk, but like so many of us, I didn’t always know how to turn my passion into a career.


Years later, I found myself in the world of live radio, hosting and producing The Business Babe Community Connect show. It was during this time that I discovered my love for conversation, storytelling, and, most importantly, building community. But I didn’t stop there. I knew I had to follow that calling deep within me, and that’s when I transitioned to podcasting and eventually found myself in Austin’s thriving Electronic Dance Music (EDM) scene.



Austin opened up new possibilities for me—possibilities that I never dreamed of back in North Dakota. The music, the energy, and the people all contributed to something bigger than myself, and I quickly realized that if I could make this leap, anyone could.

The Power of Transition: P.I.V.O.T.

Throughout my life I've faced many transitions. Today I want to share with you a framework that helped me through times of change. Whether you're looking for a new career path, starting a creative project, or moving to a new city like I did, these steps can guide you through the process.


Pause:
Before making any big changes, I had to take time to pause and reflect on what I truly wanted in life. After moving to Austin, I had to assess what direction I wanted to take. Was music just a passion, or could it be something more? Pausing allowed me to realign my goals and focus on what was meaningful to me.


Investigate:
At one point, I felt stagnant and unsure of my next steps. I started attending music events in Austin, immersing myself in the local scene. It was during this time that I discovered EDM and instantly fell in love with the vibrant community. Investigating new avenues can lead you to unexpected opportunities. Sometimes you just need to explore the unknown to find your true passion.


Validate:
Once I began showing up consistently at EDM events, people started recognizing me as a thought leader in the space. This validation came not just from the community, but also from within. I knew I was on the right path. I started organizing industry nights and experimenting with event planning, which further solidified my role in the Austin music scene.


Open Doors for Opportunities:
Once we started hosting events, new opportunities began to surface. Collaborating with different venues, networking with artists, and taking chances—even when things didn’t go as planned—were key to moving forward. Don’t be afraid to open doors and explore the unknown. Some opportunities will work, and others won’t, but every experience will teach you something valuable.


Transform:
Finally, transformation happens when you embrace the journey and allow yourself to evolve. I transformed from someone passionate about music into a Music Superconnector, speaker, and community builder. Every step along the way—every success and failure—contributed to that transformation.

Take the Leap and Chase Your Dreams

If I’ve learned anything on this journey, it’s that you have to be willing to take risks, embrace change, and follow your passion with everything you’ve got. You don’t have to know all the answers, and you don’t need a perfect plan. What you need is the courage to take the first step, investigate new possibilities, and allow yourself the freedom to grow and change.



So if you're feeling unsure about your path or looking for a sign to make a bold move, let this be your encouragement. Your dreams are worth chasing, and the only thing standing between you and your future is the willingness to P.I.V.O.T. When you pause, investigate, validate, open doors, and transform, the possibilities are endless.

Austin gave me a new stage, but it was my belief in myself and my vision that truly made the difference. Now, it’s your turn—go for it!

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